what would u do if your child does this to other kids?
phew.this is one of the toughest challenge i have to face at this moment.being the only child in the family, nia has no other friends of the same age and she is only exposed to the 'adults'. thus, she gets a lil bit too much excited everytime she sees another kid.maybe she was thinking, "oh, dalam dunia ni ada budak kecik lain rupanya..".hehe
when she was a baby and harmless and didnt know how to walk around, i didnt expect that i would be facing this phase.sebelum ni geram je tgk budak lain pukul budak lain.last2 jadi kat anak sendiri:p the thing is,this is what u have to expect when raising up a toddler. this is the way she explores another 'tiny creature'. coz everytime when she's with us, "the adult", she will be experimenting by poking our eyes,nose and tampar2 pipi.so, bila jumpa budak lain je,she'll do the same thing.
the girl in the above pic is 2 years old, and nia managed to make her cry! 2 days ago when we went to o.u, nia approached a 5months old baby girl and she ter'buat' the same thing,nangis la baby tu! so, here comes the part where the mummy would have to scream n be garang!!haha. bukannya niat dia jahat nak pukul budak ke apa, but she's still learning and maybe she tought what she was doing was something ok.innocently doing it.
the funny thing is, nia is very2 friendly, there was this one time where she approached a 4 years old girl and touched that girl, but dat girl tolak dia, xnak kawan wif her.nia jatuh terduduk, tapi tak nangis, n terus pegi lagi kat dat girl, xserik2 nak kwn jgk:) hehe, mummy dia pulak yg geram dgn budak tu, tolak my nia sampai jatuh :p
my daughter ni kuat orgnya.hmmh..so now is the phase where i have to mould her, nasihat and warning untuk 1st n 2nd time, the 3rd time mmg kena marah la jgk.after that will come the sesi bermaafan.yer la, i feel bad jgk marah budak 1tahun ni kan, so i nak terapkan jgk nilai2 "sorry" tu...so nia, nanti dah besar jgn ego nak minta maaf dgn mummy k?coz dlm 1 tahun ni je dah sejuta kali mummy minta maaf dgn nia.. :)